Life 2.0

Bruce

At zero dark-thirty this morning, the boomerang of grief hit me right between the eyes. My brother from another mother-Bruce Hardwick-passed away on June 1st, and for whatever reason, today it was time for me to share a few thoughts about this incredible man. I've known some great people in my time, but none greater than Muk-Ta-The' (Black Striped Wolf), who is the man that held my hand (literally) when life had closed one door and I was struggling to find the open one decades ago. From humble beginnings, Bruce became known to many around the world as a teacher, mentor, and friend. 

JAWS 50TH ANNIVERSARY

In 1975, JAWS was released into 450 theaters, creating the first summer blockbuster and effectively changing the way humans related to open water. I was just 16 years old, and while I had read an excerpt of JAWS in Reader's Digest before it became a best seller, I knew something was up when a friend of mine came back after watching the movie with..."I'll never swim in the ocean again."

 

I've grabbed some audio from previous JAWS episodes, including my pal Jimmy Brinks (who, along with Donnie Scheffler, went with me to watch it the first time). Carl Gottlieb, who played Harry Meadows in the film, as well as being a main script writer, and my friend Richard Kaufman, who played on the original movie soundtrack. And, in homage to Robert Shaw's brilliant USS Indianapolis monologue, I do my own read (in lieu of paying serious coin to use the orginal audio) of that powerful piece of movie history 

 

 

Father's Day

I wasn't actually going to do a podcast today, and then I started getting text messages asking where the podcast was on a Saturday. Well, all the puzzle pieces fell together for a Father's Day episode, and some great memories and lessons of Poppa John, who was a banker by profession, Count Dracula during Halloween, a Friday night bowler, and above all, my dad.

Aruging with Idiots

Many years ago, when I was still bulletproof and could bench press a small car, I worked as a bouncer on the weekends at a local bar. The first lesson the owner gave me was that I should never argue with drunks or idiots- usually the same thing- because the second you do, they win. In the times we live in now, arguing with dimwits, nitwits and halfwits who are drunk with an inflated political sense of self is a reminder that rational people will never convice an irrational person they are wrong no matter the facts, figures or truths.

The Wednesday Rant

Hitting the gym for the past 50 years has taught me a lot of lessons and given me some incredible insights into human nature, as a core sampling of society is always on display. I'm indebted to my grandfather Karl (pictured here) for passing along the "Discipline of Iron" and the reminder that no pain means no gain, be it on the bench press or in life. 

Master Bao and the Mountain Pass

I had another episode planned for today, but that "still, small voice" nudged me to take a different route, and I'm glad I listened. I was led to one of my favorite writers and authors, Tom Hanratty, and specifically to his book Master Bao Stories. In this story, the lesson of perspective is revealed as Master Bao and his pupil Ping meet two men, who have very different experiences while traveling the same path. 

Memorial Day 2025

Memorial Day (originally known as Decoration Day) is a federal holiday for honoring and mourning the U.S. military personnel who died while serving in the armed forces. It is a day for visiting cemeteries and memorials to mourn the military personnel who died in the line of duty. 

There's nothing happy about it.

Like many things, it's been hijacked by retailers as another way to sell mattresses, tires, and furniture, but the other side to all that stuff is the Gold Star families who will forever mourn the loss of their loved ones who died in combat. To that end, this is a composite episode of my other Memorial Day podcasts all rolled into one.

Lest we forget.

The Control Game

We are swamped moment by moment by information we have zero control over, but that info often takes control of us. Since what you focus on expands, you have to mind your focus (and focus your mind) just to make sure you don't lose the power of perspective. There is a great exercise by my old friend, the late, great Wayne Dyer, that can assist you in not majoring in minor things. A little musical interlude from my friend John Berry on this episode as well.

The Bubble

It's one of those days when I suddenly realized that my level was off and the "bubble" that is supposed to be in the middle wasn't. So, I stopped what I was "doing" and took a few minutes to just "be." Amazing what happens when you take a few minutes to lie down on the grass and do some cloud gazing in the middle of the day. 

Mother's Day Memories

This episode was created from a conversation with a kid I grew up with, who shared a story of a friend of his, whose mom drove him and a few of his friends to Woodstock when they were just teenagers. That "mom moment" gave me the idea to add a couple more voices. It's Mother's Day memories from Candace Jordan, Chris Joyce, and Mandy Jankus, as well as a few memories of my mom, Carol, who passed away in 1997.